Let kindness lead this festive season

It’s 20 December, and I find myself longing for the days of my childhood—when I eagerly counted down the sleeps until Christmas with pure excitement. Now, instead of joy, I’m weighed down by anxious thoughts and a never‑ending to‑do list. And I know I’m not alone in feeling this way.

That’s why I wanted to use my blog as a space to share a simple ambition: to bring kindness back into Christmas.

I’ve always loved old‑fashioned Christmas movies. Before the era of dazzling effects and slick editing, they relied on heartfelt storytelling that touched our souls. Bushfire Moon is one that always comes to mind.

During the film, there’s a moment when Liz the devoted mother, receives a bunch of roses. It’s not a grand gift, but in the middle of drought and hardship, it meant the absolute world to her.

We watch Liz explain to her children that Christmas isn’t about wish lists or possessions—it’s about gratitude, love, and cherishing one another.

The messages in this film have stayed with me since childhood. Perhaps ten‑year‑old me absorbed more from it than I realised. Now, in my late forties, I find myself yearning for a world that celebrates togetherness and gratitude, rather than constantly wishing for more.

This past week, I’ve had the joy of creating countless bunches of fresh flowers. Each one has filled me with happiness. People often tell me I should charge more, that I’m “too cheap.” But honestly, the money doesn’t matter. What matters is knowing that my flowers bring colour, joy, and a spark of beauty into someone’s day. In a way, each bouquet feels like my own version of Liz’s roses—a reminder that kindness and beauty can lift spirits even when life feels heavy.

I long for a Christmas like the one in Bushfire Moon—a celebration of belonging, of being present in the moment, of love shared freely.

If my reflections resonate with you, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Leave me a comment, and let’s start a conversation about what truly matters this season.

May you find joy in celebrating all that you already have—the simple pleasures of sipping a warm coffee, catching up with a dear friend, or admiring a vase of fresh flowers on your kitchen bench.